Fragmented to Whole: Life Lessons from 12 Step Recovery
Tired of feeling fragmented and overwhelmed? Fragmented to Whole: Life Lessons from 12-Step Recovery is your guide to creating a life of wholeness, authenticity, and healthy boundaries. Join Barb Nangle, a boundaries coach and speaker, as she shares raw and honest insights from her own journey and the principles of 12-step recovery. Discover how to set boundaries without guilt or shame, overcome people-pleasing tendencies, manage your emotions effectively, cultivate a stronger sense of self, and build healthier relationships. Barb's approach is raw, honest, and sometimes a little bit (okay, a lot) sweary.
Barb doesn't speak for or endorse any particular 12 step program of recovery. Though she's a huge fan of 12 step recovery, and a member of two 12 step fellowships, she cannot speak for them. If you're ready for real talk and practical tools for transformation, tune in! To learn more about Barb, go to https://higherpowercc.com/
Fragmented to Whole: Life Lessons from 12 Step Recovery
How Manipulation Shows Up During the Holidays and How to Get Away from It | Episode 328
Manipulation is often sneaky, sometimes unintentional, and rooted in fear (of abandonment, disapproval, rejection). For those in recovery, recognizing past manipulative habits—learned as dysfunctional ways to get needs met—is key.
In this episode of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, we break down how manipulation is activated during the holidays, why people-pleasing IS a form of manipulation, and how to choose authentic connection over control.
Key Topics Discussed:
- Why people-pleasing is a manipulative behavior.
- How childhood survival strategies (rescuing, fixing) become adult manipulative patterns.
- The subtle manipulation of guilt, obligation, and emotional pressure during the holidays.
- Deflection: Shifting focus from one's behavior to another's reaction.
- The shift from trying to control others' emotions to owning your own feelings.
You cannot stop others from using guilt or pressure, but you can choose how you show up. Stop managing other people’s feelings and take responsibility for your own to experience true internal safety and freedom. Choose truth over performance, as real connection requires dropping the manipulation and being real.
Be sure to tune in to all the episodes to receive tons of practical tips on living a more whole life and to hear even more about the points outlined above.
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